torn between 2 lover....but confuse about new man

[zaphire]

Summary:

I'm in a long distance relationship for 2 years. My boyfriend is trying to build himself up so we can be together. In the meantime he allow me to go out and have fun dating because he said he can't be there for me physically. Told me that if I happen to like anyone just tell him but to always keep him in my life. If things doesn't work out between the new man and me, I can always go back to him and everything will be like before. 3 months later I met someone local and hit it off. I started to have feeling for him but don't know if he only using me or serious with me. I kinda build a wall because I know my heart is not empty but the more I hang out with the new man, the more I become weak to him. He used to txt me constantly now he doesn't. I understand he work long hours so we only see each other on the weekend now. My mind is confusing.....I like both of them and don't now who to pick or if the new one only using me. I want a good future and waiting for my boyfriend is taking too long while this new man has everything.

[pisces25]

Don't be in a LDR, there is no point for this type of relationship for you. Although your LD Boyfriend say you can have fun dating doesn't mean you have to. As IF this wasn't going to happen?

Break up with your boyfriend and just date locally.