Sounds like he takes you for granted and assumes you will never leave. Maybe it is better that you are not married. It would be a shame to be with someone 20-30yrs and be miserable for 90% of it. Do a Pro & Con list why you should stay why you should go. What positive things does he bring into your life? Would he fight for you? Sometimes men need a reality check, take some time away from him and enjoy your life not focused on him but, on yourself. If he starts to "chase" you again and shows fear of losing you keep it up long enough that you get your point across which is "you don't NEED him, you chose to keep him around" but, if he becomes more self involved and doesn't care at all it is time to make the time apart perminant because the reality is he is already checked out.
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