Thanks so much guys for replying to me.
I'm a good girl and I know I would never have sex unless I know I'm in a stable long term relationship which both of our families acknowledge. It would be better if he can wait until marriage.
This guy had been making me confused a lot in the past. At first, a few days after the first date, he suddenly dropped by my house and said he want to talk to me. He then talked to me about wanting 3 children (we are both 26 years old) and wanting to start a family before he reach 30. He asked if I would be a good mother and he said that he wants to buy a house but since it's expensive he need to to share it with someone and buy a house that is far away from city. He asked if I'm ok to live far away from the city. I was extremely shocked by these sudden weird interest he had, thinking that he was already thinking of planning a family with me after know me for just a few hours!
The following few more meetings, he is always asking me questions about what kind of guys I like. So I just give the common qualities most girls would want. However when he asked again on another day I finally got the courage to said "someone like you". And he look at me and touched my chin and talk about the type of person he is. But he never said he want a girl like me too and I was confused and disappointed.
And so, one day, when I invited him to my place and cooked for him and let him to my room to just talk, that is when he suddenly jumped on me and kissed me.
(My friend told me it was wrong of me to invite him to my room because it might send the wrong message but I had let him in the past before because he wanted to see my Final Fantasy game which I play on my computer and I'm happy to show him too. I trusted him because we have mutual friends and I know his friends very well and they are all good people)
After he tried grope me which I have to pull his hand away and tried to get intimate and hinted having sex with me, I got really upset thinking that he is a player and wanted me only as friends with benefits.
However we meet up a few times after that and he talked about what happened that night when he was in my room. He admit that he can get carry away , saying because he is a guy and he finds it hard to resist the temptation when a girl is so close to him. So told him that we should meet up in public places only which he also agrees. We discussed about it and he seems very honest and said he that as long as I don't allow him, it would never happen. We are able to discuss about it very openly.
I feel very disappointed. It's a pity. We share such a good chemistry every time we talk but I feel like I'm losing trust in him and he seems to be losing interest with me too. That is why I'm not contacting him a the moment and he is not contacting me too. He still thinks that we are friends.