Hey guys.
Been with my girlfriend for a while now and I feel it's pretty serious. However these past two weeks something has been bothering me.
We last saw each other on 18th March and we agreed not to see each other for a while as she's a got a lot to do at the moment, with her new house coming up, her mother and other things. I'm fine with that, and we text each other from time to time that first week.
She text me on Friday saying everything was getting to her and she needed to get away for the weekend, so sure enough off she goes and I can't get hold of her at all that weekend. Sunday night I'm starting to worry so I head over to her sister's house to see if she knows anything. I get told the best thing to do right now is not contact at all for a few days and that my girlfriend will text me.
So that brings us to now, I haven't contacted her at all this week, but neither has she got in touch with me. Now it's really starting to get to me, I'm doubting whether she loves me still etc (I can get a little paranoid). I've made the decision that if she hasn't spoken to me by Friday evening, I'm going up to hers out of the blue and getting some answers.
Should I do this? I really need to know what's going on but at the same time I don't want to annoy her.
We went out about a year ago for a short while and she did something similar to me and broke up with me due to issues at the time (nothing to do with me).
I've told her not to do that to me again and she promised she wouldn't as she felt quite bad about doing that to me. My worries and fear are demanding I know what's going on, even if the rational part of me is saying I should just relax and not do anything. But 2 weeks with virtually no contact is annoying me and all I really want her to do is let me know she's ok, that I have nothing to worry about.
Also, I should add that her sister said that she doesn't know what's going on and made it seem like she hadn't been in contact with my girlfriend either.
Am I just over-reacting?