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    Need your suggestion to set my new relationship?

    I am attracted seriously towards my senior, which is just gonna be completing her graduation this year. & I am in second year! I don't know whether I gonna be meeting or even able to see her daily, but still believe to start for the relationship. She is older than me a year or two so, but that's really not the problem. Real problem lies that actually how should I impress her or confess my love towards her?
    Firstly I was only attracted but now want to get serious! No past relationships because I consider myself as guy just for one woman. I am confused so as how to build relationship.Need your suggestion to set my new relationship.?
    I am attracted seriously towards my senior, which is just gonna be completing her graduation this year. & I am in second year! I don't know whether I gonna be meeting or even able to see her daily, but still believe to start for the relationship. She is older than me a year or two so, but that's really not the problem. Real problem lies that actually how should I impress her or confess my love towards her?
    Firstly I was only attracted but now want to get serious! No past relationships because I consider myself as guy just for one woman. I am confused so as how to build relationship.

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    Well for starters you don't go telling girls you are in love with them that barely know you or not involved romantically with. Love is something that is expressed when you have been in a committed relationship for awhile....feelings need time to develop and just because you may feel attracted to them doesn't mean they will feel the same. The first step is to ask them out on a date. On a date is when you get to know each other and see how you get alone. If it goes well for the BOTH of you, then you ask them out on another date and so on.

    Lastly, don't set your expectations too high. Be prepared for rejection. Do not spin a fantasy relationship in your head and expect it to really happen....in most cases it won't, and never will, leaving you devistated needlessly. You are obsessing, and that is creepy behaviour.

    So only express INTEREST, not your feelings.....expressing your feelings will make them run away from you. So don't spoil your chances, just play it cool, be casual and just ask her out on a date.
    Last edited by smackie9; 11-04-12 at 06:49 AM.

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    Yep. Never say you love someone until you've been dating 2-3 months or longer. Moving too fast will make you seem creepy.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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