1) Tell a guy to call you, and when he does, you don't answer and you don't call back. Even when you have a history together.
2) When you actually do see this guy, you talk with him, flirt, laugh, like all is well.
What's the purpose? What's a guy supposed to think when the girl he supposedly had something going on with seems to have to decide when he's important enough to focus her attention on at her own convenience?
This is what's happening to me. I'm not going to try to put reasons behind her behavior, but I'm not going to ignore it. This seems to be a cycle. There are periods where she's hitting me up to hang out, and there are times where she simply ignores me, particularly when I'M the one trying to initiate something. If not in person, we usually end up talking on Facebook chat late at night because I don't have texting on my phone. When she initiates conversation, she rants and raves, makes jokes, and is extremely friendly. When I initiate conversation, I get half-assed, apathetic responses and sometimes no responses at all. So I stop putting in an effort and just forget about her until I hear from her again.
And I probably shouldn't take internet conversations so seriously, but there's something that hits a bad nerve when you're already talking for an hour, and soon as you say "Lets go get something to eat sometime. We can go to (wherever)" the conversation goes dead.
I've known this girl for years. SHE was the one who initiated anything even close to resembling what could be a romantic relationship. And now she's jerking me around like I'm some kind of putz. Or at least that's the impression I'm getting.