I had a crush on a girl for a little while, but as I was dating someone I would never have acted on this. I let the feeling pass.
Couple of months later me and my girlfriend then started to grow apart and this girl I had a crush on tried to kiss me drunkenly, I told her to stop as I didn't want to cheat, but admitadley it put a little more strain on my relationship.
Now my realtionship has ended (single for 3 weeks now), things ended on very good terms, we are still living together but she plans to move out in the next couple of weeks. Now I really don't want to upset my ex but I would love to ask this girl out on a date. Is this innaporriate, atleast until she moves out?
Now I'm not even 100% sure this other girl likes me, but I don't want to leave it too long, and I want to cut my losses and just go ahead and ask her out rather than keep thinking 'does she or doesn't she?' But towards the end of the year I will be moving abroad so nothing too serious can probably come of it, but again I really like her, I don't want to miss a chance. Even if it just ends in us being closer friends I'd be happy; as at the moment we only really see eachother at work, and talk through text.
Also making the whole situation more complicated is not only do I work with this girl I work with my Ex... We had discussed what would happen when we start dating other people, and we agreed honesty was the best policy. But when a friend made a passing joke I was trying to have sex with a girl when I was drunk (which isn't true) my ex got quite mad, she said she doesn't trust me because I had cheated in the past. This really hurt me as she had promised me she wouldn't judge me on this past mistake. I don't blame her personally for this as she had put a lot of faith in me when we were dating, but it wasn't very nice to be accused of something I didn't do. I know the whole connotation "once a cheater always a cheater" but I hope I have proved I was adament not to make the same mistake again.. If she became jealous over nothing, how will she feel when she hears I have feelings for this girl?
Thanks,
lbnine