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Thread: I want my ex back

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    I want my ex back

    Hello,*
    A month ago I broke up with my girlfriend. We've been together for 6 months and it was perfect. She studies in Switzerland, so we were seeing each other for a weeok once in a month or two. We chatted everyday, we called each other and it was great.
    But a month aho she broke up with me for no particular reason - as I said we were great lovers and friends and the distance had never been such a problem. She told me that it'not working out and I tried everything to keep her, but without any result.*
    I felt tottally miserable the first two weeks, while it seemed on facebook that she is having fun. I decided to start No Contact and didn't contact her for three weeks, while going out and having fun as mush as possible in order to get over her.
    After these three weeks i contacted her just to check how is she and to agree that the break up was for the best and that I still want to be friend with her (sure, I was dying on the inside, but I had read that this is a good thing to do and will increase my chances to taje her back). We had a little argue, but I told her that when she comes back I'd really love to see her. She answered me that only time will show (which is not a rejection and made me feel little better) abd then I webt offline.
    I know that she still has feelings for me, we had a wonderful relationship and I just can't understand why she broke up with me in the first place and do I have any chances in getting her back?*
    Thanks in return.

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    You are in denial. Just get on with your life and stop using No Contact as a manipulation tool in hopes it will somehow "make" her want you. No Contact is to help YOU get over being broken up with. She broke up with you so it's up to her to contact you if she wants you back. She's not doing that so accept that your 6 month fling is over and done with.

    I'm sorry you're disappointed in the final outcome of your dating however; Keeping in contact with her and stalking her facebook page will do NOTHING to help you get over your disappointment.

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    You are right, but I still have strong feelings towards ger and want her back.
    Maybe
    I've done mostakes already, but I want advice how to proceed..

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