My understanding is that during our early 20's men develop ridiculously strong feelings of attraction towards women, these feelings are called love. There is a trick to it because what makes us fall in love is basically very fertile characteristics seen in young women (such as very small amounts of hip fat - incase any women see this as an open opportunity to eat maccas) combined with a rush of hormones and increased availability of willing female flesh. Ideally, this occurs in adolescence, but due to social constructs this is often not possible. The age 21 in the modern world is approximately the right age for falling in love.
The problem being that at this age most women are stuck up and stupid and far to full of themselves to commit to a young man. They have all sorts of stupid ideas and boxes to tick in their head and many just miss the boat entirely. Back in the old days their families just told them to shut up and hurry up and get married.
As men get older, we start to realise that there are lots of women to screw and falling in love becomes a lot harder. However, women still operate with huge attitudes of entitlement and refuse to play the submissive role.
You sound like the kind of person who needs a table spoon on concrete. So what if he says you are wrong and corrects you ? Maybe you are wrong. If you want to be hyper sensitive about everything it is 100% better for the world if you stay alone.
I think you should consider looking inwards to see if these problems are caused by you. Also you're probably too old for him, whhich could be part of the problem, so best end it. I suggest, painfully, that someone is their 30s or early 40s might be ideal for you ?