Oral Sex: yes or no?

[BoredGeorge]

Ok, so I'm rather inexperienced. I'm not a virgin, but I've never done oral.

My question is, did you enjoy it the first time (either giving or receiving), and before you had any, did the thought of it make you excited?

I'm asking because the thought of putting a guy's bits in my mouth really turns me OFF. I don't think it's wrong or anything, but the thought just disgusts me. And I don't like the idea of his mouth being down there in my bits either.

I probably just sound like a prude... but like I said, I don't have a problem with other people doing it ... I just can't see myself doing it. But then a lot of people seem to think it's a necessary part of a healthy relationship.

Thoughts? Opinions??

Yes it is necessary, yes you have to do it.

[BoredGeorge]

Necessary? No, like anything sexual..if it turns you on then it might feel necessary. If it doesn't it simply isn't. Oral sex can be very enjoyable for both involved, but ofc you have to want to receive it/give it. It's the same as with any other sexual practice.

You're not prude, some people simply don't like the idea of it and there's nothing wrong with that at all. Tastes differ (literally, hoho), and it's good that way.

Oral sex is in no way a necessary part of a healthy relationship, communicating and sharing your desires with each other, whatever they may be, is. That includes sharing what you DON'T want to do

A real man will only share feelings and communicate AFTER a blowjob.

[CAM]

A real man will only share feelings and communicate AFTER a blowjob.

Ah, yeah...right. (quick, get the straight jacket).

[BoredGeorge]

Ah, yeah...right. (quick, get the straight jacket).

Honestly, western women are so stupid, it is like there is something in the water which makes people especially retarded. Considering the US is almost an entirely sexually liberated country.

Lets use woman speak :

You're supposed to love and care about your partner and want to spend you life with them ! You're going to one day have his babies and shit. If you care about each other so much how freaking hard is it to put his dick in your mouth for 15 minutes ?

If you don't respect him enough to give him a good blowjob, don't go out with him. You don't deserve him.

[vashti]

If you care about each other so much how freaking hard is it to put his dick in your mouth for 15 minutes ?

15 minutes? Have you ever TRIED to keep your mouth extended wide for that long?
(Well, maybe for a small penis, it wouldn't be so difficult.)

[BoredGeorge]

15 minutes? Have you ever TRIED to keep your mouth extended wide for that long?
(Well, maybe for a small penis, it wouldn't be so difficult.)

Last time I got a blow job it looked like she was sucking on the handle of a cricket bat. She still did it and she certainly didn't love me.

[vashti]

Last time I got a blow job it looked like she was sucking on the handle of a cricket bat. She still did it and she certainly didn't love me.

How much did it cost?

[smackie9]

Ya I was gonna say maybe he/she was tucked up. Some times it's hard to tell....hell even Eddie Murphy was fooled....or was he?

[BoredGeorge]

How much did it cost?

$120

I think she would have kept 60 or 70 of it less taxes. Women are rather cheap..

[thiudiskr]

15 minutes? Have you ever TRIED to keep your mouth extended wide for that long?
(Well, maybe for a small penis, it wouldn't be so difficult.)

That's a pretty short blowjob.

[vashti]

That's a pretty short blowjob.

Not if you know what you are doing.

[thiudiskr]

Not if you know what you are doing.

Good answer ;-)

[vashti]

Good answer ;-)

I thought so. :-)

[cathy22]

I love giving oral to my guy, but in general, it pays to know and trust your partner.

[haxan]

Some people are just more oral sexually than others. It's not a trait that you can foster a true passion for, imo.