My next move --- Please help me!

[KC212]

Hi everyone,

I'm 22 and recently stopped seeing a girl Jamie because she's moving away. We were more friends with benefits than anything.

I've recently found myself interested in a new girl Stacey, who I met at my party a month ago through our mutual friend Melissa. Stacey lives a lot closer to me and I feel we hit it off well at my party. She added me to Facebook, and so a week later I ask for her number and invite her for drinks.

Her and her friends meet my friend and I at a bar we were at, we dance, drink, laugh and have a good time. That was about 2 weeks ago. She recently invited me (over facebook) to her birthday party this weekend.

I texted her on Saturday afternoon to ask if I could bring a friend along, and invited her out that night with us. She was legitimately busy but said she'd see me next week for her party. She always seems upbeat with " ! " and replying quickly.

My question: How do I get this girl to fall for me, naturally? Should I just wait until the party and chat her up... but also chat up other people too? I don't know if I want a relationship right now but I'm definitely interested in hanging out with her more and seeing where it goes. Any advice would be so great! Thank you.

[logan]

The vibe is good, slow your role.try not to be an eager beaver and wait for the party. Sometimes at a Party, magic happens...you're getting ahead of yourself on the relationship part, she may not want one either, so be patient and smooth and let us know how it went...Good luck!