Hi. I'm new here
I'm looking for advice, seeing as me and my boyfriend have been going through a serious rough patch.
I'm 18, and he's turning 21 this year, and we've been dating for almost 3 years. We're quite serious, I would like to think, despite our young ages. I'm a senior in high school and he works full time as a mechanic. We started dating in a weird situation (best friend's sister's ex, both fresh out of relationships), but we hit it off really well. We became very close very quickly, and became inseparable. We've had our fair share of problems, but nothing we hadn't been able to get through, until now.
It wasn't a big fight, really, it's more like a pile of tiny fights thrown together. We've been bickering and arguing over every little thing for about a month, and today I just had the last straw. He picked me and my friend up to drop her off at home after he got off work, and everything was fine. But I honked at a friend of mine and he yelled at me for no reason, and we got into an argument once we dropped off my friend. It was basically about how he's been getting mad at me for no reason and taking his anger out on me, and after 15 minutes he just told me to get out of his car. Granted, I was only a few blocks down from my house, but I thought it was extremely rude, and that's what pushed it for me. So I stormed off. Then, a few hours later, I went back to talk to him, and it just escalated into a huge fight, end with me telling him I was done. We would start fighting about stupid things that weren't even on topic of the original fight, and everything the other said was just completely wrong and offensive.
I understand he's under a lot of stress, because his family business isn't doing well and he's worried they might close and he wouldn't have a job. I'm also quite stressed, because I go to school for 6 hours a day, then have work for 7+ hours a day twice a week, as well as dealing with college plans and looking for a second job. We wanted to move out together, because neither of us has the best home life and we're so close, and for the most part, more mature than others. I'm stressed about finances and how we'll afford moving out, and how I have to go to school and work, both full-time starting Fall. He's stressed about his current job.
I just want to know- should I bother continuing the relationship? I really love him, but I don't want to be stringing along something that isn't working, if it isn't :/
I tried to be as fair to both of us as possible, and any opinions are greatly appreciated. Thanks everyone
-Amanda