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Thread: Wife worrying about a stranger feelings over mine!

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    Wife worrying about a stranger feelings over mine!

    I posted a while back about me getting jealous over a guy at a commute stop, always trying to be friendly with my wife. one night she had to catch a cab to work and the guy works down the street from her job, she asked me for cab fare and got in the cab and ask the guy would he like a ride too, I was not happy! So the responses I got from you posters, told me to quit overreacting, so i chilled out.

    One thing I notice, when they get on the bus together, she sits right by him or vice versa and when they exit the bus, he strikes up a conversation! I still chilled!

    So last night, he was at the stop again and me & my wife minding our business and he walked passed, telling us he forgot his wallet and will missed the bus? I mean who cares! Why did he feel the need to tell us, almost like they were conversating on a regular basis, that he felt the need.

    I zip my lips and out of nowhere my wife was reading my facial expressions and started to get snarly because, so I responded, why did he feel the need to tell us...didn't sit well with her, her bye was cold and her call home later was cold.


    I don't get it, the guy is a stranger, the fact she seems to worry about more is just pissing me off, making me not like this guy at all, I been let the situation go, she brought the sh*t up!

    WHO IS OVER REACTING?

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    Are you a F uckin troll or something? You posted about this a few months back. We already told you how WE felt about it...now go away.


    We are on her side....you are over reacting.

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    What really bothers you about this guy? I mean, some people are naturally friendly with pretty much everyone..andhe sounds more weird than someone you should be threatened by. Is he better looking than you or something? He doesn't seem to have much of a game from what you posted above so i see him as harmless. What you are doing is showing your wife how insecure you are and by that you might make things a lot worse over a very small issue.
    -to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings

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    Smackie 9 F*ck off troll!, if you don't like my post, don't reply idiot@! Asip4u good advice, i need to stop acting insecure! and be a man!

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    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    Are you a F uckin troll or something? You posted about this a few months back. We already told you how WE felt about it...now go away.


    We are on her side....you are over reacting.
    ****offTROLL

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    I think your insecurity might stem from your choice of cell phone. Sounds to me like you have one of those old nokias that require batteries the size of camels balls. If u want my advice, get yourself a nice iphone and the next time this ball bag tries talking to your wife, just take your phone out and pretend you are making a really important phone call. When this comedian sees the quality of your phone , i think you will find youll get no more trouble from this bus riding fanny. If this fails, give your wife a dry slap and tell her to stop talking to dicks on buses.

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    This thread made me laugh!
    Mwahahaha, genius idea.
    And if Smackie is a troll, I'm the queen of England.

    OP, she has been talking to him daily on the bus, he's not a stranger. They are now acquaintances. You really need help coping with your insecurities. And, I also think your wife sounds like a wonderful person that wouldn't leave a friend inn the lurch. Either appreciate that about her, or leave her so she can find someone that won't guilt trip her for being nice.
    'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.

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    Thanks for your post.

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