My bipolar ex girlfriend after telling me i was the best thing thats ever happened to her finished with me by text after 3 years! Saying she needs to find herself & doesn't want to hurt me . Straight into seeing another guy which was going on whilst together , finishes with him then goes on a dating site saying she wants to do all the things we used to do & go to the same places! Wants a gentleman , i was nothing but a gent & treated her like a queen but she just treated me like crap espec the last 12 months when totally a one sided relationship! I know i'm better off without her , haven't contacted her in our 3 months apart just totally confused about whether i should now or not!!!???