We're 10 minutes apart, and we're both sitting alone at home. And it's frustrating.

[sythmod]

Hello there.

Kind of a followup from [URL="http://www.loveforum.net/threads/63539-Girl-wants-some-time-to-think-I-desperately-need-help.?highlight="]this thread[/URL]. (If you read the thread (not that you have to), I gave her some space and it all worked out)

So, we've been together for pretty much 6 months now, but we're not a couple, even though we do anything a couple would do. She is just not really ready for a relationship, and it doesn't matter much to me.

But to the point; the last couple of weeks we've been quite busy the both of us. A lot of finals and tests, and we haven't really had much time to be together. We go to the same school, so we do see each other pretty much each day (even though I'm a year older), but apart from that we haven't really had alone time for 1 and a half week (also last time we've had sex, but she've had her period for about 2 weeks now, some irregularities since she just started on the pill). However, this weekend we both have had time for eachother.

Yesterday (thursday), I asked her if I could come to her after her soccer-practice, but she said she had to write an assigment for the night. Fair enough I thought, atleast she knows I would like to be with here. I also said to her that I'm sorry if she feels I'm being annoying and needy (something I'm clearly not, atleast I try not to be), I just said that I miss being with her. She replied "No, I don't think you're needy/pushy, it's just that it's been so much at school lately, and I've been prioritzing you infront of my friends for a long while now, and i also need some time for myself", which I find completely ok, and I do understand that.

But; today it is friday. We're both sitting home alone, when we in theory could be together. We talked on Facebook (and everything was normal, joking and no signs of anything being wrong) and she was just gonna watch some series tonight, something I was gonna do aswell. I've been frustrated the whole evening now, because what I really wanna do is call her and ask why we just can't watch it together, like we usually do. But I've said to myself that I'm not going to take the initiative on this one, seeing as I asked her yesterday, and I'm really afraid of being a pushy guy. I just really want her to call me and ask me if I want to drive to her and be there with her.

I'm not really worried that anything is wrong, because some weeks it might be like this, and the next week it's different. But why is it like that? I would love to be with her, but she doesn't seem to want to be with me as much as I'd like to be with her at the moment.
Are we just two different persons when it comes down to this? I don't really need a lot of alone time, but might it be that she needs some time alone after a stressful week with a lot of tests? And if so; how should I approach this? Should I justlay low?

It's REALLY frustrating, please help me with some input.


PS. Sorry for reposting this here, but I thought that maybe some of the females here might have some suggestions aswell.

[smackie9]

You are not in a relationship so you have no control or say as to what happens with her. Why do you waste your time? Why don't you go find someone that actually wants to be your GF. I think she has strung you along long enough don't you think?

[Jason250]

Thanks for your post