Originally Posted by
Welshy
I have actually tried a couple of dating sites in the past, thing is how am i supposed to fill in much detail about myself if there isn't a whole lot to say?. See what i mean?, yes i've tried therapy before, i just didn't feel it helped at all.
I also want to add to my last post, i've still been talking to her and she asked if i wanted to try and work things out. How is that supposed to work? she said i make her happy in every way but that one way, if she likes girls then what is there to work out?. Seriously i am confused, it's making me feel worse talking to her as well.
I know it's hard to understand but this is just a fantasy right now(you and that girl) and down the road you would find out eventually that it's not going anywhere and it would hurt you MORE. If you at least started slowly looking at women in your area (even if you found them online) and started talking and eventually meeting up for coffee or whatever, you would start getting comfortable. As Cerby already said, you can't be so negative all the time or you'll never accomplish anything. Have some belief that it will work out and start taking baby steps towards it.
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings