Ex says he's "talking to someone"

[RoxieBee]

I just found out my ex is "talking to someone" ...he told his closest buddy. My ex doesn't know that i still talk to his buddy's wife. When guy says that he's "talking" to a girl, what does that mean? he said it as follows, "i'm talking to this new girl, she seems pretty cool" What does that mean?

It's been a week since he completely stopped all lines of communication. And the last thing he said was that "let it go. It's over for now" ...But i kept trying to call, text and email him all last week. And yesterday i decided to stop because there was no answer coming from him.

He had told me he needed time to stop feeling bitter towards all the fights in our relationship, and that he wanted me to give it time to slowly become friends. But i got impatient and he just got fed up. Then he finally said, "i am seeing someone, but thats not the only reason why i stopped talking to you. You don't respect my space, you don't respect my wishes at all. I won't allow myself to be with someone like that"

It hurt sooo much, we were together for 3 years and broken up for 4 months. Would you say that this new "person" he's talking to is a rebound?

[TeeJay19]

This girl is probably someone he's interested in dating, which he is totally entitled to do since you two are broken up. You seem to be having a really hard time letting go. Stop calling him and stop thinking about him. Move on and stop caring about what he's up to.

[VincenzoG91]

Who cares? He is your ex for a reason. Possibly several reasons. Let it go and get on with your own life.

[bluesummer]

Why are you trying to all, text and email him all the time? He's right, you aren't respecting his space. Leave him alone and move on with your life and let him move on with his. You'll know you've officially done so when you stop feeling the need to be in contact with him constantly. You are NOT going to be able to be 'friends' at this point in time, especially if you start obsessing over him seeing other women. It doesn't matter at all how long you were together, you've broken up.

[smackie9]

I just found out my ex is "talking to someone" ...he told his closest buddy. My ex doesn't know that i still talk to his buddy's wife. When guy says that he's "talking" to a girl, what does that mean? he said it as follows, "i'm talking to this new girl, she seems pretty cool" What does that mean?

It's been a week since he completely stopped all lines of communication. And the last thing he said was that "let it go. It's over for now" ...But i kept trying to call, text and email him all last week. And yesterday i decided to stop because there was no answer coming from him.

He had told me he needed time to stop feeling bitter towards all the fights in our relationship, and that he wanted me to give it time to slowly become friends. But i got impatient and he just got fed up. Then he finally said, "i am seeing someone, but thats not the only reason why i stopped talking to you. You don't respect my space, you don't respect my wishes at all. I won't allow myself to be with someone like that"

It hurt sooo much, we were together for 3 years and broken up for 4 months. Would you say that this new "person" he's talking to is a rebound?

It's been over for 4 months and no way is it a rebound....rebounds happen like within a week of the break up. I'm on his side....just frickin let it go!

It's a good thing he has decided to not be friends.....his life would be full of drama from it.

[Jason278]

? He is your ex for a reason. Possibly several reasons. Let it go and get on with your own life.