So confused

[Jenl]

First let me apologize in advance for the length of this post. Two years ago I began a relationship with my
Current boyfriend, only after he asked me out about a half dozen times. He is a great man, handsome,
Wealthy, intelligent, Christian, caring..... A good man. A year ago I made a tough decision to close my
Business. The day I made the announcement he told me he wanted to see other people. I was devastated.
My dream(business) was gone as now so was the man I loved. A month or two later I agreed to see him
Again. I need to explain also that I moved to this town 6 hours away from my family to open my business. Since the announcement I have only been closed 6 months and it has been almost impossible
To gain employment, therefore he has been helping me. He knows he is the only reason that I have stayed
In this town. However, he refuses to speak of our future together and anytime I try
To bring it up he says that nO one knows what the future holds. I don't know what to do. He has been
Trying to get a divorce for 4 years now and it doesn't appear to be any closer. I am afraid if I stay with him he will end things once his divorce is over and I will have wasted my time and
Opportunities. Help!!

[Boisdevie]

You are trying to push him where he doesn't want to go. Back off.

[Jason521]

Thanks for your post