Hey, me and my girlfriend broke up 2 months ago she has a child 3yo which I have been a dad to for 1 1/2 years, his biological father has nothing to do with him. In the relationship we dated for 6 months and then she moved to the city to start studying. hated living with her parents and could only afford living in a shitty apartment. I had just bought a house so asked if they would like to live with me. She accepted and all was good. I work away so am gone 2 weeks of every month so it wasn't like living together full on. Anyway after 6 months of living together she called me one day and said she wanted to talk, I came home and she broke up with me and moved back with her parents,we had been fighting quite regularly in the last couple months. Not big fights just little shitty ones. She came back a day after being broken up and said perhaps she had been too hasty and would rather just have some time apart because she wants to focus on uni and Cash(the 3yo). She still want me to be a part of Cash's life, we have become quite close during the time together. I still speak to her because I take Cash out when I am home and says she loves me and misses me, she really wants me to be in Cash's life and says I am the best Dad for Cash. Which is great but I want to be a part of her life too and she says she its too easy to get back with me now and she wants to be sure.... Any girls want to answer this?? I feel its if I am too available to her so it's easy to get back together or is it that it's to easy too get back together because she misses me and want to get back together because she wants to not because she needs to?