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    Thank You Gift

    Without dragging the story out too long, here's a summary. Basically, this girl and I have become really great friends over the past 4 years. I tried asking her out once and she said she wasn't interested in that manner, and since then, we've become even greater friends. I'm going to send her a thank you card and was planning on getting her a bouquet as a thank you gift. Would this be appropriate given this situation? I think so, but I'm a little concerned what she would think of it. Any thoughts?

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    Its a myth that women like flowers, they much prefer chocolates. Do you think they get those ass,s looking at roses? plus it doesnt matter if she gets fat because shes not your gf.

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    i just read my post back aand its a little insensitive. To balance it, i suggest hanging in there and youll probably get your chance.

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    Flowers sends the message you are into her romantically. Is this the msg you want to send? If so, just ask her out. THEN send her flowers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Flowers sends the message you are into her romantically. Is this the msg you want to send? If so, just ask her out. THEN send her flowers.
    Hes already asked her out once and she chased him. Do you want to shatter his confidence forever? If hes thinking along those lines again, he must wait until her self esteem is sufficiently low to take another chance. Preferebly after shes has a bad break up with a bad boy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by atlbravesfan321 View Post
    I'm a little concerned what she would think of it. Any thoughts?
    Trying too hard. ^
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    bumb ubm!

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    Just an update. I decided to go with it. I gave her a nice bouquet and the card. She wound up giving me a small kiss. Thanks for all the advice

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