hi i am new to this site, my boyfriend of 15 months has asked me to move in , he asked me a few months ago and i thought about this and said that i would, so i am planning on moving in he next month and have handed my notice in on my place. but one thing that is worrying me so much is that his mum and sister live in newzealand, i know he has wanted to move there in teh past and he did for a while but he came back home and now hsi residency has expired since 2007. i have seen papers for residency and he has not sent them off but i am now so worried that he is going to go as his family want him over there so much. would he be so creul to ask me to move in and apply for residency. he has told hs family how much i mean to him and he has said some lovely lovely things to me that he can see himself marrying me ect and a child. i am just paranoid and i really couldnt face losing him , we have just had an extension built on house and we have been out and brought things for house including a few expensive things. is he goign to go , can anyone help me ??????