need some ideas guys.

[heartach]

I have been married for a while and a lot of it was rocky so I have lost the connection with my husband and the friendship we used to have due to me being jealous of him talking and hanging out with girls, talking to girls , looking at girls and because of how I have reacted to comments and his actions and was trying to contr him. What can we talk about or do to get that spark back and me learn how to be his friend and for him to see I am his friend so he can open back up to me? What can I say to help him open up and feel more confident with us.

[haxan]

Why does he spend so much time talking, hanging out with and looking at other girls?

A spark is hard to re-ignite if it's gone. What did he like about you in the first place? He married you, so it must be a few things.

[iamaninnocentma]

maybe he got her pregnant and was forced by her aggressive father. almost happened to me that.