Hi there!. Im matt, 21 from the uk. During the early days in Jan 2012 i met this brilliant girl called jo (20). We met on facebook and had an instant connection, ive not come across anything like it before tbh. Even after a few hours of knowing her she started flirting with me on our IM chats, at the time i was only looking for friendship in general but she won my heart pretty quickly lol.
Everything was great,So much flirting! I must have got daily facebook comments from her and romantic morning texts, she hinted many times that she wanted to be my girlfriend. In March i decided to finally ask her to visit (she only lives about 20mins away). I didnt want to ask her to quickly as i have never met anyone from the internet before, i didnt know what to expect. I wanted to use this opportunity to get to know her more in person, she stayed around for the afternoon watching tv and i made her a meal, it went great i thought we really hit it off. I hugged her x2 during, i thought it might have been innopropiate to do anything more as it was our very first meet up. Bless, she didnt want to leave in the end and wanted to make plans straight away, but it was hard to as we were both so busy with work all the time.
For another 2 weeks she was mentioning how she had such a great time with me, but then i woke up one morning, no good morning text from her, i decided it was nothing in the end, i dont expect it all the time anyways. But for 2 weeks she stoped texting as much, no facebook posts, didnt seem herself atall.
It took me 2 weeks to ask her if everything was ok, (i didnt want to jump to conclusions) and she said 'Yea, im either tired or busy at work, still be my friend though?'
Obviously as you can imagine i was thinking, 'friends...? we were so much more than that!' i got a little angry at her and just left the convo. A few days later i just accepted it and told her i was ok with it. (Only way for us to stay in contact really). I know somewhere she still likes me really.
Last week i passed my driving test! whoop, she wished me good luck and must have said well done like x3, i think that sparked a bit of interest.
Since then she has been contacting me a bit more and that leads us up to yesterday. she contacted me on facebook chatting in general and said 'Your popular on facebook arnt you, got a few girls posting ' I was thinking..where did that come from, maybe its some sort of hint of maybe jealously? im not sure
The thing is i would really love her back, shes an amazing girl and we get along really well. What sort of things can i do to get her back appart from flirting a bit?
Many thanks! Matt