Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossoms View Post
telling someone you love them without any prior explanation is very ballsy, but it isn't the best approach. most likely you scared her off. you should have asked her out on a date beforehand, or asked if she was seeing anybody. dating in the workplace is more common that it used to be, but some still like to keep their relationships strictly professional. you can't change what's already been done. if she doesn't have feelings for you it's time to move on.
Nah it is flat out awesome, or insane. Either way, girls are going to turn your down because they're stupid and don't know what is good for em. I say any man who comes to a forum whinging about a girl would have a been a much better boyfriend than the douche bag she is gonna end up with.

Seriously, if there is ONE THING I know about girls it is that they will NEVER EVER EVER EVER say yes. The trick is to get them to do stuff without having to ask a question.

Like ...

"Hey bitch, lets go see a movie fukin"

Will get much better results than :

"You're a super awesome girl. I'd love to get to know you, would you like to see a movie ?".

You'd think it would be the other way around, but no, such is the way of things.