How many sex partners is too many ?

[smackie9]

Anyways only insecure idiots need to know numbers. It is nobody's god damn business to know someones "number" in the first place.....the past is where is should stay...in the past.

[smackie9]

Yep. But that's a bit different to enjoying a good shag.

Ya sex is a good and healthy thing, how can one compare it to death and violence....what a turd.

[iamaninnocentma]

it not always good or healthy, not the way i sometimes do it, but im a dirty bstd.

[thiudiskr]

Ya sex is a good and healthy thing, how can one compare it to death and violence....what a turd.

I fail to understand how you perceived any comparison of sex to violence in my post when all I said was that (in my opinion) promiscuity is foolish and immoral. I think maybe instead, you want to call me "a turd" instead of acknowledging how a history of violence (violence being immoral) would bother you much in the same way that promiscuity might bother me. And that is childish, so I do not see any reason to address your commentary any further.

[iamaninnocentma]

i like this fella ^^

[surfhb]

I fail to understand how you perceived any comparison of sex to violence in my post when all I said was that (in my opinion) promiscuity is foolish and immoral. I think maybe instead, you want to call me "a turd" instead of acknowledging how a history of violence (violence being immoral) would bother you much in the same way that promiscuity might bother me. And that is childish, so I do not see any reason to address your commentary any further.

But the definition of what is promiscuity is purely subjective. I couldnt even come close to naming or counting the women Ive slept with but Im surely not foolish or promiscuous.

just think, would it bother you if your SO murdered someone or if they have a history of domestic violence?

Huh? the **** are you talking about? Jeesh! **roll eye** BTW....Violence isnt always immoral either

[smackie9]

I fail to understand how you perceived any comparison of sex to violence in my post when all I said was that (in my opinion) promiscuity is foolish and immoral. I think maybe instead, you want to call me "a turd" instead of acknowledging how a history of violence (violence being immoral) would bother you much in the same way that promiscuity might bother me. And that is childish, so I do not see any reason to address your commentary any further.

Oh la de da

[haxan]

If that's important to him in a SO, then let him be. There are plenty of women who haven't had many lovers in there life, that's 'one' of the priorities to him in a relationship.

[robotchick20]

I wouldn't like it if my babe had sex with the whole world, but as long as he tells me the truth and has NO STD'S then it happened before we got together and really isn't any of my business.

[smackie9]

I dated virgins to players......numbers didn't make a difference on how the relationship went. I think what changes the landscape is the negative attitude towards numbers.

[behappy]

If I don't share your values, I am an asshole. great! bunch of pretty mature people here. If number didn't matter, woman wouldn't feel ashamed of having sex with lot of men and telling her number. THEY DO FEEL ASHAMED. ITS A FACT. WHY ? Because number DOES MATTER. Its been shown in countless broken relationships, articles, movies. Its part of the culture. I am talking about the US. I don't know where this forum is located ? on Mars ?

[searock]

I'm a woman and I don't feel ashamed when saying how many sex partners I've had.

[Boisdevie]

I'm a woman and I don't feel ashamed when saying how many sex partners I've had.

OK, how many you had then?

[smackie9]

I don't feel ashamed either. I like sex, I had fun. Typical religious based moral values, riddled with guilt to control people.

[searock]

There's a difference between saying something personal publicly and saying it to a person you are dating. I don't think the number of my sexual partners is relevant on this thread. I am not ashamed of saying it to someone I am dating. As for the rest, I'm a private person. It doesn't mean that I'm ashamed.