Wow where to start.
I'm a 45 year old man married with two boys.
For the last two year I have been in a relationship with a wonderful beautiful woman that is 20 years
younger than I. Our relationship started out as co workers and escalated into so much more.
We would try an meet every other week, usually at a hotel. Sometimes we where able to meet at other
places just to hang out or have dinner. We would talk or text as often as our busy schedules would allow.
Of course no one knows of our relationship, it's been that quit.
At two points in our relationship I actually broke it off. I just felt I wasn't going to leave my marriage
And more important to me leave the boys. I felt she should be with a younger man to grow and live
life with. Each time we always ended up back together and see each other as much as possible.
Recently she has broke it off with me and losing her has made me realize how much I love her and want to be with her. All she wanted from me was to leave so that we could be together. It's killing me and I
finally realize that I can't live without her. I know what most you are thinking and her argument is valid
that I have had two years to make it happen and couldn't. But now I know I love her more than my wife and I'm only here at home for the boys. That's not fair to myself my wife or my love. My boys will alwaysbe the most important people in my life that will never change. I'm very much involved with them.
But my lover isn't wanting to give me a chance to make it right and do what I couldn't for two years.
I know she loved me with all her being and I do too. I told her that I would leave but she says she's
moving on.
What can I do to change her mind? How can I win her heart back? She loved me she still has to love me.
I will do anything to make this work I have to. I can't stand the thought of her not in my life!
Please someone advise me on what I should do?