Been with my boyfriend now for 5 months. It is going very well. We both had long term relationships that ended in January. And we got together shorty after that. We met on a dating site. We were both just looking to go out and have some fun and have been inserparable since.
But, we have seen his ex twice. and each time he gets really bummed out. We were canoing yesterday and she was at canoe launch. we dind't exactly see her or have words, she drove off before we saw her. But today we talked and he said he is really bummed about seeing his ex and he doesnt know why. She was there fishing with her new boyfriend.
Is he still in love with her?? She did leave him.
he is 38 and Im 31.
I just don't understand why he would think telling me that he is bummed about seeing her would make me feel good. In fact it is making me question our relationship.