Dominant woman?

[Happy8]

I met a tall woman on a dating website who is about an inch taller than me and she almost always wears heels which makes her noticeably taller. Her preferred height range in her online dating profile suggested that she likes being taller than men. I asked her whether this was the case, and she said maybe. When we are intimate, she sometimes gets playful and likes to tickle me, but she demonstrated that she isn't ticklish herself. I can see she gets a real kick out of doing this, enjoying watching me wriggle helplessly under her control. I'm therefore wondering whether she is a dominant woman, which is something that turns me on quite a lot. I asked her whether she is dominant or submissive in a relationship, but she replied she can be both, so it was a quite a vague and inconclusive answer. I'm keen to find out whether she would satisfy my fantasies about having a dominant girlfriend, but I'm reluctant to raise the subject again in case this puts her off me. Can anyone give me some objective advice?

[Happy8]

Can anyone give me some suggestions please?

[haxan]

There's no such thing as a dominant woman in the bedroom, only sissy men.

[IndiReloaded]

Ouch, lol.

What do you mean by 'dominant GF'? Haxan is being tongue in cheek, I think, but there's a grain of truth there. Women who are assertive about sex (I think) is different from 'being the man'. I've always thought guys who truly enjoy being submissive in a sex relationship have mommy and/or misogynistic issues. Its natural for a man to enjoy feeling dominant to a woman during sex, and for the woman to be pleasured by it. Its how the biology is set up: the man 'gives' and the woman 'receives'. My two cents on it, anyway. Shrug.

[Happy8]

I have met several dominant women who like to control their man. Many men, often in powerful jobs, enjoy a dominant woman. This thread is not about the merits or popularity of dominant women, but whether the woman I have met is likely to be dominant.

[iamaninnocentma]

yeah, it sounds like she has met someone else. This tickling is her way of telling you, because she is afraid that the words will hurt you too much. If i was you i would be back on the interweb looking for a new bird. In the meantime, try not to be too down. You should get a playstation. It will help take your mind off the situation.

[IndiReloaded]

Many men, often in powerful jobs, enjoy a dominant woman.

Yes, and they often have control/mommy/misogyny issues, as I said. Anyway, there's room for all flavours.

If you want to know if she will satisfy this fantasy of yours, just ask her. Say you want to be dominated. Either she will grin and break out the velvet loops or she'll be appalled. It tends to be one or the other.

[surfhb]

[haxan]

Its natural for a man to enjoy feeling dominant to a woman during sex, and for the woman to be pleasured by it. Its how the biology is set up: the man 'gives' and the woman 'receives'. My two cents on it, anyway. Shrug.

Agreed, 100%. He's misinterpreting her playfulness, imo. Even the pro doms have men at the end of their food chain so to speak that they are submissive to in the bedroom. It's nature. I'm sure they get off on the guys, even powerful businessmen, who have their issues and will pay to be abused though. Beats punching the time clock and having a boss I guess, lol.

[IndiReloaded]

Geeze that nurse is lucky she got away. Bet she'll do all her future interviews in public places. Yikes.