My tip to men: Don't ask this question during sex...

[rachelcze]

A few guys I've been in relationships with have asked me this question during sex: "Are you going to cum? ....how about now? ....are you close?" Don't pressure a girl. Women, in general, have a harder time with it then men do, and repeatedly asking it won't make it any easier. Whether or not she says so, you're most likely just annoying her. You're switching her focus from pleasure to thinking, "No... it's not quite good enough yet." And trust me, that line of thinking won't get a girl's pleasure to peak any faster.

[AdminOnline]

i have to agree with you. When it cum, it will cum..

what is the hurry ?

i don't know why guy ask this qn for..

lol

[BoredGeorge]

A few guys I've been in relationships with have asked me this question during sex: "Are you going to cum? ....how about now? ....are you close?" Don't pressure a girl. Women, in general, have a harder time with it then men do, and repeatedly asking it won't make it any easier. Whether or not she says so, you're most likely just annoying her. You're switching her focus from pleasure to thinking, "No... it's not quite good enough yet." And trust me, that line of thinking won't get a girl's pleasure to peak any faster.

I will keep this in mind. Next time I have sex with a girl I don't like I will constantly ask her if she is going to cum. Thanks for intel.

[Boisdevie]

Sterling advice from the OP. So glad they explained how 'it' all works to us poor suckers. Now I know just what to do to stop annoying my GF. But I also have a question since the OP is clearly well endowed with the old grey matter. My question is this - is it acceptable to ask if my GF prefers to spit or swallow? I would hate to think I"ve been making mistakes and could do with some good advice.

[HDBadger]

A guy taking sex advice from a woman is like a guy taking dating advice from a woman.

[haxan]

I think it's decent advice from the OP. She's a girl and she's letting you know what doesn't get her off. My tip to her: find better lovers.

[iamaninnocentma]

Ive never asked a woman that ever. When im pumping a bird, her comin is the least of my worries. They dont like when you are pumping from behind and you make funny faces for the video camera you have hidden. Found that out just last week.

[dem862]

How do these disgusting men even get sex in the first place. What is wrong with this world?

[rachelcze]

My question is this - is it acceptable to ask if my GF prefers to spit or swallow? I would hate to think I"ve been making mistakes and could do with some good advice.

Yes, that's an acceptable question, because you are asking her what she likes. :-)