Oh, broken hearts forum,
When the question comes up of how a person can "win someone back", I always give the advice that sometimes you can and sometimes you can't. I follow the rule of giving a person their space when they ask for it and letting them come around when they are ready. IF they ever are ready. While every relationship is different, I often find myself going against my own advice or even asking if it is good advice afterall. Can you really win someone back? Guys out there....I ask, under what circumstances would you consider taking someone back if you were the one to end things? Let's say, there was no spark, or you got scared, or a million other reasons had you feeling like ending a relationship...do you ever consider that maybe you made the wrong decision? And was there ever a moment where a girl you ended things with did something or said something that made you think "Wow, I really messed up. I should have kept her"? What is it?