Why would my girlfriend do this?

[jcowap]

Hello! I have been seeing my girlfriend a month and known her/been dating her for 4 months.

We get on so well and are such a good happy match!

We met on a dating website.

I deleted the app off my phone and my account and she was in mine when she deleted her app.

Anyways i have been at my friends tonight and set him up on plenty of fish because he is recently single ad realised she is still using the site! She has actually even been on today! She has uploaded new photos that she only took at the weekend and the weekend before.

Its not good is it!?

I need to have it out with her but would prefer face to face. Im working 3 nights now so it will have to wait if im doing it face to face! I dont want to do it over text, i want to see her reaction and ask her out right does she want to be with me.

Im going o feel so rubbish at work this weekend

[JoeyJR]

who cares if she is still using it.

Don't show that it bothers you. If you wan't to talk to her about it just bring it up in a way not so straight be like ''i was setting up my buddy on POF and saw that your still using your POF account'' and just wait for her reply see watt she says, but at anytime do not loose your cool, don't show that it bothers you or it faces you, and it shouldnt. Waitt for her reaction.

[Boisdevie]

Set up a profile for yourself with a photo of somebody else. Message her on POF and see if she replies and if so what the reply is. It doesn't sound good though.

[jcowap]

who cares if she is still using it.

Don't show that it bothers you. If you wan't to talk to her about it just bring it up in a way not so straight be like ''i was setting up my buddy on POF and saw that your still using your POF account'' and just wait for her reply see watt she says, but at anytime do not loose your cool, don't show that it bothers you or it faces you, and it shouldnt. Waitt for her reaction.

Yeah i had no no intention of arguing about it!

The thing is, i was inboxing her sister on monday because i had a reason to be worries about my girlfriend and her sister said she thought that we was just friends and she thinks her mum shares the same view. I asked my girlfriend about it and she brushed it off saying she doesnt know why her sister would think that amd where does her sister and mum think shes going when shes always out with me stopping mine and i believed her. Im now doubting this! Also her facebook says shes still single!

I was just going to ask her straight if she really wants to be with me

[Lifesick]

Regarding the profile still being on the site, she could very well still be trying to meet new friends through it - don't assume the worst and upset her when you have no clue. I use a dating site myself and found one of my now good friends through it even though she was and still is in a relationship that she seems like she's very loyal to.

[jcowap]

Regarding the profile still being on the site, she could very well still be trying to meet new friends through it - don't assume the worst and upset her when you have no clue. I use a dating site myself and found one of my now good friends through it even though she was and still is in a relationship that she seems like she's very loyal to.

Hello!

I now have an update. I wanted to talk to her face to face about it however last night she was texting me asking am i ok so i said no far from it. Anyways she got it out of me in the end. She didnt give me a reason why she was still going on it however she has now deleted it (i have checked) i was going to ask her about it when i saw her but now feel whats the point its finished. She apologised for upsetting me.

With regards to what your saying, on this dating site you can change to put that your in a relationship and can also change what your looking for e.g friendship, relationship, dating but nothing serious.


Probably best to leave it now then and move on? I said if she doesnt want to be with me its ok and she didnt say anything. I was thinking of it was me and i wanted to end it, id say so (because its easy to do over text message) and i wouldnt take the profile down

[jetta86s]

Good for you. Don't take it too personal. There is more to it than the status right? Go on and be happy with it.