How do I get this girl's attention

[neyuh]

Hello,

I need some advice.
I like a girl who was in the same class as mine until last week (end of schoolyear). I think she likes/liked me. She liked some status updates and pictures of me on facebook and she could laugh with me too. She even baked cookies for my birthday
I would like to get to know her more, but it's like she blocks everything I try. When I want to start a conversation, she only gives some short answers She also doesn't ask anything about me.
I am quite shy, but when the conversation finally started, we could talk pretty well with each other (until last week or so). I don't really know what changed or why,...

How could I get her attention?
We don't see each other very much now and I can only talk to her through Facebook (I don't have her phone number).

Thank in advance,
Neyuh


P.S.: Sorry for my English, it's not my native language.

[JoeyJR]

by the looks of it youve bein friendzone..

forget that whole attention crappp

next time you see her or even on fb ask for her number.. wen u get the number phone her 1 or 2 days later(stop that whole chit chat on fb)

u wanna know if she is interested?

The easiest way to find out is to ask her out on a date.(thats watt your going to do wen u phone her)

If she agrees, her IL is high enough to go out with you.

I still cant believe u still dont have her number ppfffttt wtf... This isn't fvcking rocket science.

[JoeyJR]

and don't analyze a girl's interest level. It doesn't matter.

All that matters is what YOU think. If you like her, just go for it. Don't try to figure out if she likes you; doing so will only make you more tentative about pursuing her.

Just go for it and let the chips fall where they may. You'll know soon enough.

[neyuh]

Yeah I know that it's stupid, It's just because I'm shy :s I make everything complicated...
What do I do if she asks why I need her phone number?

Another problem is: Maybe it will not even be possible to see her during the vacations (=3 months): travelling, working,... :s

[neyuh]

Another problem: she isn't alot on facebook chat. I sent a message 2 days ago and she didn't respond (I know she saw the message the same day).
I don't want to stalk her..
Should I just send a message to ask for her phone number or wait until she's online?

[HeartIsAching]

**** Facebook. You want to know? Do this:

Walk up to her and say "I would really like to get to know you better. Would you consider going out for coffee sometime?"

BOOM! Done.

[JoeyJR]

Another problem: she isn't alot on facebook chat. I sent a message 2 days ago and she didn't respond (I know she saw the message the same day).
I don't want to stalk her..
Should I just send a message to ask for her phone number or wait until she's online?

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If u are sure that she saw the message n didn't respond then I wouldn't even bother talking to her or even contacting her anymore..

And next time u see her just be normal say hi and go about your bisnessss... U should be talking to other girls not focusing on just one -_-

[neyuh]

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If u are sure that she saw the message n didn't respond then I wouldn't even bother talking to her or even contacting her anymore..

And next time u see her just be normal say hi and go about your bisnessss... U should be talking to other girls not focusing on just one -_-

I know why shy isn't online a lot: she is on a sailing camp. I'm now talking to her on facebook and she is being nice and she responds to everything. I'll see her thursday there. I hope I'll get her number.
I can't talk to much girls because I'm shy. It's difficult for me to meet new people :s

[Boisdevie]

I can't talk to much girls because I'm shy. It's difficult for me to meet new people :s

Il faut que tu change. Et bon courage.

[HeartIsAching]

I can't talk to much girls because I'm shy. It's difficult for me to meet new people :s

Two things to remember about this:

1. The worst she can say is "no". If she does, it's not the end of the world, it just means move on and try again.

2. It's like the lottery - you can't win if you don't play.

[neyuh]

Il faut que tu change. Et bon courage.

Oui je sais, mais c'est difficile pendant les vacances parce qu'il n'y a pas de contact par l'école. Je pense que je dois trouver un hobby (social)
(Yes I know, but it's difficult during vacations because I don't have contact through school. I think I need to find a hobby (with social contact))

Two things to remember about this:

1. The worst she can say is "no". If she does, it's not the end of the world, it just means move on and try again.

2. It's like the lottery - you can't win if you don't play.

Yeah I know I don't have infinite chances with this girl... I'm just too worried about how she would react to what I say.

Thanks for all the help!

[Nemos]

Yeah, just talk to her in a way that she knows you're interested, like asking her if she'd like to go to lunch with you or see a movie or a concert or something. If she says yes, you've got a chance. If he turns it down, probably not (if she really likes you she definitely wont turn you down and miss the chance to be with you).

[jetta86s]

If a girl does not give you her number its a sign. If your not making the right move your losing time. Its really that hard I know. The best thing for you to do is ask her out.

[wilsonjack230]

I think you should tell her about your feelings.

[neyuh]

I think you should tell her about your feelings.

I think that would be too early.