A question

[coffeecrazy]

Say I ask out a girl and said: "do you wanna come out with me for a meal on Wednesday?" will she know i'm asking her out on a date or will she think just as friends??

[King Zarathu]

Here.. if you say something like "xxxxxxxxxxx.. so that we can improve our friendship" and grin at her.. corny, yes, but see, if you show her that you're NOT interested in her like that, it is probable and most likely she'll want more from you if she likes you.

Women are attracted to men who aren't attracted to them

[coffeecrazy]

Here.. if you say something like "xxxxxxxxxxx.. so that we can improve our friendship" and grin at her.. corny, yes, but see, if you show her that you're NOT interested in her like that, it is probable and most likely she'll want more from you if she likes you.

Women are attracted to men who aren't attracted to them

Hmmmm. so you're saying if I act not as interested or as just friends i've got a better chance??? But if she want's to take it further she might not think I like her like that and back off.

[misombra]

no. no she won't.

[coffeecrazy]

Every time I see her I clam up, on holiday I found it sooo easy to talk to her.

[zas]

sk8er lies. most girls i know dont bother if men dont show interest. and if you're asking her out on a meal, its pretty blatant that it's a date.

[coffeecrazy]

sk8er lies. most girls i know dont bother if men dont show interest. and if you're asking her out on a meal, its pretty blatant that it's a date.

Good point, right! next time I see her on her own i'm gonna ask her out.

[.:Eek:.]

being a girl (at least i hope so), if sum1 sed that to me i would assume it were a date. im guessing u mean wed nite? also...cheesy smiles and a wink would get the msg across

[coffeecrazy]

being a girl (at least i hope so), if sum1 sed that to me i would assume it were a date. im guessing u mean wed nite? also...cheesy smiles and a wink would get the msg across

yep I meant wed nite. winking always works!! they will either know you like them or they will laugh and thinki you're funny.

[.:Eek:.]

laughing and thinkin youre funny is good a girl loves a guy that can make her laugh

[C1d6OC]

If you want her to go on a date with you, then ask her on a date. If you want her to go out and just casually, the just ask her to chill with you. I don't think there's anything wrong with clearing it up before hand. There's nothing worse when someone gets the wrong idea especially when the other person is feeling differently. That's just my thoughts. Depends on the person. Do what u gotta do though coffee

Cdoc

[coffeecrazy]

If you want her to go on a date with you, then ask her on a date. If you want her to go out and just casually, the just ask her to chill with you. I don't think there's anything wrong with clearing it up before hand. There's nothing worse when someone gets the wrong idea especially when the other person is feeling differently. That's just my thoughts. Depends on the person. Do what u gotta do though coffee

Cdoc

I agree, I would hate it if I asked her out and she thought that it was just a caaual friend and I wanted more.

[xplodinjohnno]

wow straight out to the point. I use to be one of those shy guys that would never beable to work up the counrage to ask a gurl out on a date. Boy has that changed, I find that touch being a very powerful tool as well. I dont mean like grab her or do naughty things, but jus little suttle touches like graze her face with the back of your hand. Works a charm for me to get the point across. Also would like to ask the chicks/gurls in here what they think if a guy did that to them?

XJ

[Chlorine]

xplodinjohnno-----Depends on the guy. If the girl likes the guy, the attention would be welcome. Otherwise he'de get a frosty stare in return. Still, some people are touchy-feely and it means nothing to them. Miscommunication...ahead.

What is a definition of a date? Everyone seems to have different opinions.

[.:Eek:.]

but jus little suttle touches like graze her face with the back of your hand.XJ

oOo ive gone all tingly it works guys hu have the confidence to do stuff like that definitely get a thumbs up from meh