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Thread: Guys please help me!!! please! =(

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    Guys please help me!!! please! =(

    I met this guy a few weeks ago and of course he came off sweet and genuine. After a few conversations he told me that he can see me being a part of his life (kinda quick dont ya think?) I am a college student in my 3rd year majoring in criminal justice with the intent to go to last school and that intrigued him. He works at my old job and i know EVERYONE there so when i go there to shop and i catch him while he is at work i have mini conversations with the guys and gals but he really doesnt like that I know mostly everybody there (I cant help that, 95% of these people i go to school with as well) and he always say "im going to have to let these guys know you mine" but he always say "he just playing" but he says it so often. Now as of this week he has not been returning my phone calls or responding to my text messages. I limit myself to call him 1 or twice a day because i refuse to blow his phone up. I just want some kind of understanding. I addressed this to him and He say that "it is going to get better" and says "you over think things and that my ex must have really hurt you because you assume i am going to the same." So guys, help me please i need some understanding! i am really interested in this guy

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    One thing that will tell you the truth about how he feels about you... His actions.

    He tells you everything you want to hear but doesn't actually follow through with the actions that would prove to you that he means what he says. Not only that, when you ask to communicate your insecurities about the fact that his words and actions don't match, he turned it back around on you and made it out that it's your problem by assuming that your last bf was as bad as he is.

    This guy has a way with words that your gut is trying to tell you to pay attention to because his intentions do not sound too sincere. Time will tell if things actually do "get better" as he's said or he simply is a disengenuous ass. While you're waiting to find out, guard your heart until he's proved his sincerity IN ACTIONS.

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    Thank you so much, it sucks when you feel this way about a person you like

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