You're not exclusive, so you should still be talking to other girls.
You're not exclusive, so you should still be talking to other girls.
Keep in mind, we're in college. I feel like going on actual dates is a little more serious to ppl my age because it really doesn't happen as much as it does after college. Usually its hanging out and partying alot and deciding to be bf/gf. I think it's a little more serious than u guys r thinking. I don't see her dating other guys right now
You are completely missing the point.
After 3 dates you think this is serious? You are a lost twat, I'll give you that much. Since things are so serious, then there should be no doubt that she is your g/f, but you're not, are you? No, because if you were, you wouldn't be here. You've been to lunch twice with this chick. It's not serious, she's not your g/f, end of. You'll learn sooner or later, or you'll just go through life in this same moronic state. Either way, I'm done with this thread. I'm just gonna sit back and watch you fiddle your way into the friendzone.
thank u for an actual educated response. I do all of those things, we talk all the time, I send her good morning texts, she sometimes sends me one first, I make an effort to get to know her, we held hands and we're touching each other the whole zoo date, I pay for everything, I listen, etc. I know I'm doing everything right, that's not the issue. I just don't want to be too forward and just know for an idea of when it's safe to bring it up, or what things she'll do that will be big hints
Don't bring it up before you get physical with her. Not necessarily sex, but handholding isn't enough. I think you should stop worrying about it anyway. It sounds like things are going fine, but I'd be willing to bet she's going to get bored with you soon if you don't amp it up sexually.
Also, how the **** would you know an educated response from an uneducated one? I'm 26 and have had 3 LTRs and ****ed 30+ women. What's your dating resume like?
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