What should I do?

[Munck]

Hello.

I am unsure about my relationship, and i desperately need some advice.

I have been with this girl for about one year now. I am 19, she is 17. I say i love her, she says she loves me. Now we are moving in together in another city, where we will be attending different schools. We have signed a lease for an appartment, and we have to rent it for at least 9 months.

Recently, I have begun to question if this is really what I want, and if it is too early for me. One part of me wants to be single and free, now that i start my life at an university. My feelings for her are not as great as they used to be. I lack confidence and have a low self-esteem, and I'm worried that if I leave her, I will be alone for the rest of my life.

Additionally, I'm a coward. I'm sure she will start crying if I so much as mention leaving her, and I will be shamefull and be unable to go through with it.

I need some advice as to what i should do. I also wonder if anyone else have ever had this issue.

Should I leave here even though we have to pay for an appartment for 9 months?

Should i wait?

Help me, please

[cheekxs]

You are to young to even talk about love!
And she stills underage so the police will come and get your ass!

And what do your parents day about this?

I cant imagine my kids even think about this!
You barely know how to pay bills.

Let her with her parents where she supposed to be! UNDER their protection.
And start doing things of your age!
Like some sports, chill with friends, school, etc.

And you both dont love each other but are in love.
OR was in love!
People lose feelings for each other. Its normal.
Just break it up in a nice way. Not by texting her.etc. She will be fine.

[Munck]

It's not illegal here in my country. As long as you're older than 16.

If I break up with her, I'm afraid that she'll break down and drop out of school. And I'm pretty sure she won't want to live in our appartment.. Basically, I don't want to ruin her life.

By the way. Would you say I'm being selfish if I take some precourses that would help my education, but had to leave my girlfriend alone in the appartment for 5 hours a day for five days?

My plan last year was: Stay single for one more year, then move and leave everything behind. If only I had kept to the plan. I guess I was tired of being lonely. These days I'm getting worn out by being with her 24/7.