I MESSED UP......pls help!!!

[barbiedoll]

Hi all,
So I broke up a 5yrs relationship some months ago.
I met and fell in love with another man. Our first night together,I cried all through the sex, the thought of doing everything all over again with a new guy saddened me.
Now I don't know what my guy thinks of me,I don't know how he fEels.
Do u think this can/will affect our relationship? If it were you,what will u think of me?

NB: am not hung up on my EX or anything like that, I love my new guy a lot
TIA

[barbiedoll]

Plss somebody reply me....don't just read and run
Thanx

[Wakeup]

What is your issue? Why would you feel bad having had sex with a man that you feel you love?

[Sceitall]

After this type of situation, all you have to do is tell him what you felt and that it has nothing to do with him or your ex, and take a bit more slowly. Some people are not ready for such a type of ordeal soon, but some are. You have to really ask the source which is him and explain to him how you feel.

[Boisdevie]

If I had sex with a woman and she cried through it I'd be very turned off and would think she was not quite normal.

[barbiedoll]

Thanks guys,I really appreciate

[cheekxs]

your reaction toward the sex is weird tho? whats wrong with you?

and at the first second u started to act like that, he shoulda stop and leave.

maybe you have other issues,, take care of them

[oldskool83]

so date tjhe new guy you humped shit.

[AdminOnline]

are you crying in pain or in enjoyment??

[smackie9]

It's too late to slow things down with your present BF, you are already knee deep into it. Just tell him you are not crazy, but you didn't give yourself enough time to heal from your last relationship. There done....just continue with the relationship as normal.

[iamaninnocentma]

are you crying in pain or in enjoyment??

hahhahh you are very underrated on here loveadmin

[Graham Berkeley]

If a chick cried during sex i'd pull out, put my pants on and head for the hills. The fact he didn't and you're still seeing him probably means he has no respect for you what so ever and just wants the sex.

[Boisdevie]

If a chick cried during sex i'd pull out, put my pants on and head for the hills. The fact he didn't and you're still seeing him probably means he has no respect for you what so ever and just wants the sex.

Perhaps the guy thought she was crying with joy?

[smackie9]

Some girls do cry during sex....it is not uncommon.