A question

[applecyder]

It seems to me if you don't make it clear that you're going out as friends then there will be a huge chance for misinterpretation for both people involved. Maybe it's best to leave it vauge and see how she treats the... "meeting?" Maybe that would show some insight as to how she thinks of you so far?

[coffeecrazy]

This will sound stupid but who cares??!

What is the liklyhood of finding your perfect partner and that person considers you to be their perfect partner as well?? I just can't see it happening. Iv'e only felt really strongly about 2 girls and the first did'nt like me any more then a friend and the second one I have deeper feelings for (the one at the moment) and I can't see her feeling the same way about me.

[.:Eek:.]

sum1 needs a hug...

[sjsing]

If a guy I wasn't dating touched my face I would find it intrusive, and it would put me right off...sorry just my opinoin, some girls may love it, but not me. I would stoke a cat on the face, not a person!
I do however agree that touch is important, a gentle stoke on the back as you are walking past, or on the arm while you are talking always goes down well with me.

To the other point: "do you wanna come out with me for a meal on Wednesday?" Could be taken either way, she may well think as friends...I think thats a bit vague. Maybe say something like "If you are free Wednesday night, I'd like to take you out for dinner" then offer to pick her up.
Is Wednesday just an example? As it doesn't sound much of a date night... to get the point of the date across to her, Saturday would be better.

[.:Eek:.]

i agree. saturday says "DATE" more than wednesday. wednesday is a "i have nothing to do 2nite" day

[coffeecrazy]

yeah it was just an example. what bout my other question above??

[.:Eek:.]

which question?

[sjsing]

OK, I read your question. Can I ask your age coffecrazy? You don't have to give me exact just a ballpark.
There is a reason, I'm not just being nosey!

[coffeecrazy]

OK, I read your question. Can I ask your age coffecrazy? You don't have to give me exact just a ballpark.
There is a reason, I'm not just being nosey!

I'm 17 - I don't mind!! I'm not offended by people asking me personal questions

[sjsing]

Without sounding patronising, you are still very young, and right now I wouldn't be worrying about finding the "perfect partner" (although when I was in my teens, I used to hate it when people said that to me!!) You have many years ahead to worry about meeting "the one" and kids, mortgages etc will all come later. Right now you are young free and single, so enjoy it.
However, it sucks if you really like somone and they don't like you back (beleive me I know), no matter what age you are it's crap.
I don't have a crystal ball, so can't tell you if you will meet the girl of your dreams, both fall in love and live happily ever after... sure everyone wants that!
People do fall in love and consider each other to be "perfect" at the time, or no-one would ever get married... so it must happen, but years later those perfect partners may grow apart... no relationship is perfect, everyone has to work at it.
While you are spending your time wondering if this girl is the girl for you (she may be, you never know), there may be someone even more "perfect" out there wondering if you are the guy for her.
I would say get out there and enjoy your life... don't worry about the future.. what will be will be.
If you get in your 40s and have still not met who you may consider "the one" (although I doubt it)....then re-evaluate things, but for now just enjoy, yourself. You will also value a relationship you have had to work at, a lot more than than one you haven't.
Lots of luck to you.