What do men think if there wife has dentures at 40?

[heartach]

I'm curious what men think if there wife has dentures. Is it a turn off? I am 41 and I drink a lot of pop and my teeth started going bad when I gad my third child. We had bad insurance so I didn't go to the dentist like I should have and so now I need dentures. I ask my husband what he thinks and if he is turned off by it. He says he doesn't care and dentures are better then what I have now. I want to be sexy for him and I don't wanna be an ebaresment wich I feel I already am since I have bad.teeth and have gained some weight and have had hip surgery so I'm not able to be as active as he woukd probably like his wife to be. Could he be embaresed of me?wil I ever become sexy to him when I get dentured and lose weight and look like I used to?what do men want in there women.

[Cerby]

Have you given him a bj without the teeth in? I imagine that would be a whole pile of awesome.

True love is unconditional, if your relationship/marriage is good, then he probably doesn't care.

[bulrush]

He already said he doesn't mind. So why are you worried about it? Why are you creating problems where there aren't any?

[oldskool83]

Your creating an issue from insecurtiy, get done what you need and let it go.

[heartach]

I know I am making more to it then what it is but just the way he sounds when I ask when he says " I don't know". And he said haveing dentures is better then what I have now. I just want him to find me sexy. We have had a rocky marriage and now I'm working on fixing things but because it has been rocky he is kinda distant and is affraid to be 100 percent open with me due to how I used to react to things so because of that I'm confused I just wanna be sexy for him and not more embaresed of me then he probably already is. Is it possible that he will be attracted to me if I have confidence, take care of my self better and be a better wife and give him what he wants in the marriage? Sorry for being a pain and annoying it just that if I ask him to many questions he shuts down and I am working on not doing that so it helps to ask other mens opinion on here and also because I am so mad at myself and embaressed and want my husband to have a wife he is proud of and thinks is sexy and whatever else and I feel I am letting him down and he can't tell me cause he is to nice and because I screwed up his opening up to me years ago because of my child like actions. So I would appreciate any input.

[bulrush]

I think he will like it if you 1) have more confidence and 2) take care of yourself.

If he still feels he cannot open up to you, give him time. Each person needs a different amount of time to open up again. You say you had a rocky marriage, so the relationship was damaged somewhere, and it will take time to heal.