Hi ladies.
my girlfriend and I will be engaging in our first physical relations. (not first time ever but first time in the relationship)
of course, im excited.
We are actually heading towards the marriage route i.e have a future together.
anyway.... protection will be used.
she doesnt want to take "the pill". I therefore will be wearing a condom.
problem:
condoms can split.
I also want to be able to.... release inside her. she wants that too at some stage but obviously its a risk in terms of pregnancy. we dont want any kids.
I know UK and American contraceptions differ for women. She is American. So question is, what can she use "safely"?
over here in the UK, a woman can get a coil put inside her. But apperently this is not known in the US or if so, very very little.
advice is appreciated