Originally Posted by
phil007
can anyone help with some decent advice?
I'm a 40-something woman. I agree with Cerby. She's not that interested. If she was, she would make the time. It doesn't take days to send a simple email.
Frankly she sounds insensitive or unassertive. If you aren't interested, you just let them know politely. Its bad form to keep someone hanging on. She should know better at her age. Take it as a red flag and move on.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh