what is oh? where r u from and where do you live? sound to me like that is how they treat woman there! and if you go to other country shore you need to learn some of what they speak! so your own fault for insist to hang on your english!and i guess you did do it all without take time to know him and his culture! cause you sound surprised about every thing!is it muslim?sounds very sad for you! but you got internet google for clubs and groups of your country that lives there! i think you isolate yourself!