My gf of 3.5 years and I are both in our late 20's. Two weeks ago she left for Israel on birthrite and extended her trip. Before her trip, I asked her to make sure to txt me every day to just stay in touch and let me know everything is alright. I don't expect a book, just a very short couple word text.
In the last 2 weeks, she has only msged me a few times, and we skyped once. I 100% am sure she is very busy, and do not want to get in the way of her having fun and experiencing everything. However, I have become increasingly frustrated lately. She has been going out clubbing and partying a ton with her friends there and drinking quite a bit. I can tell from the photos on fb that everyone was having "fun". Additionally, she extended her trip and needed a place to stay so she stayed on the couch of her male guide in his apartment for a few nights.
A) Do I have the right to be mad about her staying at her male guides apt? I see this as being disrespectful to me. I can see how most girls would get upset if their bf crashed at a girls house they didnt know and drank all the time.
B) Am overreacting to everything in general? The fact that my gf is half a world away partying and clubbing makes me uneasy. I know how things get when people are drinking heavily and sleeping in close quarters.
Thanks all for the advice and take care.