i wonder watz happining with me & her. please i need yall opinions!!!!!!

[fuel2012]

Have you ever had a person on your mind all day for no reason. Well this is happening to me for a few days now and i wonder wat this means.

I dated this really cute girl a few months back she was awsome, funny, energetic, but above all real cute she has a beautiful smile but also a strong character by this i mean she is a fighter lol... and im the same way i am hard headed with a bit of pride, wat can i say im a men lol.. well to cut this short: after 3x of trying to make things work we both decided to go our own ways and end up this cool with no harm since we see each other now and then for work reasons . Well after a few months of this she has been on my mind all day for a few days now for no reason at all. I admit i still like her but not to the point of love or somthing cuz after trying 3x times now i can say we are two worlds apart and im sure she things the same way about this. But why is she on my mind all day for NO REASON!!!. its not like i see her alot or that people mention her name. I only see her once every blue moon & no body asks about her or knows we were dating. My question is watz going on or better yet wat should i do...

[TheCafeTerrace]

Maybe you're just yearning for some intimacy with someone, and so she has latched onto your mind to represent this subconscious desire.

You could just call her up, what's the worst that could happen? Just say you were thinking about her and decided to call and say hi, maybe ask her out again and see if she wants to give it another shot. Is there a downside to this apart from the disappointment if she says 'no'?

Alternatively you could go out and find someone else. Maybe if you go to a bar and get someone's number and go on a date with them or something (or just bang 'em, whatever).

[pisces25]

She is probably your 'default' girl. When I've broken up with someone they always remain on my mind til someone else comes along. Your mind reverts back to the last person you were with in the lonely moments.

[fuel2012]

Well first of all thanks guys for yalls opinions....

I could give her call but wat can i say its been a few months since i have talk to her and it would be akward plus i talkin to someone now and wat if she finds out that can cause me problems... I just wonder why she on my mind all this time could she be in trouble or something. Or is this a sign of something.