Hello ladies,
Thanks for taking the time to read this. My ex fiance broke up with me about 4 months ago. Now recently, I get the feeling that she may be warming up to me again. But I am not completely sure. I have been out on a few dates within the last month or so, and my ex knew about it (I don't play games and she found out from a mutual person, I wasn't trying to make her jealous). When she found out I went on a few dates, she tried to make me jealous intentionally. I recently messaged my ex about two weeks ago to see if she wanted to meet up to catch up. She said yes right away. We sat down and caught up for a couple hours, and from what I could tell she is definitely interested. The signs I picked up on were:
1. Body language. Her body language was very open and receptive. It was like playing simon says with her. If I motioned a certain way, she would too, every single time. To me, that is a huge indicator.
2. I apologized for stuff that I did wrong during the relationship. She started crying when I aplogized.
3. She kept telling me ways she has been improving her self and her life. Especially the things that bothered me the most.
4. She told me she checks my facebook all the time.
5. She kept asking me about my love life and if i am dating anybody, she made it a point to tell me nobody is special in her life right now.
This is all that I have to go off of right now. I thought things went so well on friday that I called her on tuesday (two days ago) and said to her:
Me: Do you have plans this friday?
her: I think I do but I can't really remember, why whats going on?
Me: I'm coming to pick you up at 6:45
her: for what?
me: it's a surprise
her: I haven't seen you in 4 months, you can't just say you are going to come pick me up.
me: We are going to have a great time I promise, just cancel whatever you have going on
her: I don't know if I can do that, but we'll see, I'll let you know
So this is where I am at. Sorry for it being to long. In your guys' opinion, if this enough information to start pursuing things again? Ladies, are these good signs that she is interested again? I plan to pursue it again with alittle encouragement from someone who can tell me that she is interested from the signs I listed. Thanks!