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    He Violated My Trust

    Hello, I apologize if this is TMI, but I need some advice and I'm too embarassed to ask any friends...

    I just found out that my husband took pictures of me asleep (naked) and sent them to some guy along with a photo of an erect penis... it's not my husband's penis. He KNOWS that I do not want any naked pictues of myself to be taken, ever. He has been begging me for years. I am so shocked right now, I have no idea what to do. Is what he did illegal? Why would he do it? I am so confused and ashamed and angry!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Confront him

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    How though? I found out through a fluke, so it's pretty unlikely this was his first time. I want to get as much information as I can about what else is going on...

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    Jeesh girl...this is your husband! Maybe something like..."Hey asshole....want to explain this"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by surfhb View Post
    Jeesh girl...this is your husband! Maybe something like..."Hey asshole....want to explain this"?
    I know, but he's just going to lie. We're probably headed for splitsville, he's a major douche, but it's a very complicated situation... what I want to know for now is how far this goes... is my naked body posted all over the internet?!?!! He knew I didn't want the pic and he took it anyway, so what else has he done??? Filmed us doing it??

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    Then if he lies you leave....simple. What else is there? You cant force info out of him

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    Wow, your man-picker is seriously damaged. If a man did that to me, I would press charges and leave him.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Yes, its illegal. Leave.
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    just imagine... i probably jacked off to you before.


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    i guess this is the internet violation of gf and wife on the internet week.

    what the hack? also send them to a other guy with a erected penis?

    how old are you guys? is he GAY??

    i think this dude hates you for real. he dont even like you.

    NO normal men, NO men that likes a woman will prostitute her true pictures.
    and a men for shore dont want you to show your body to no other dude in any kind of way.
    cause a men wants your nudity to be all his.

    So what kind of pig do this kind of shit to their WIFE? not even a girl in the streets but his WIFE!!
    and while you are a sleep???????

    i think this is big! its not okay, not normal!
    This means you cant close your eyes with this dude around you and you are not safe in your own house.
    i would be worry about my own kids in a case like this.
    cause i think this dude may be doing something bigger that you dont know about.

    Or he have been always a jerk disrespectful to you and other but you never di something about it.
    there is no excuse or reason for him to do this.

    this dude is sick. for me is a reason to file for divorce.

    cause there is no respect there.
    and you cant force someone to respect you.
    next ting you know he will be doing worse.

    go to the police and let them find out who the other dude is. and put that pig out of your house.
    dont be with him around you during this proses.

    sick ****!

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    How did you find out?

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