Need Advice Please

[chriswalshv1]

Hi heres my situation/dilemma
i met a girl whom i work with, i met her in february of 2012 . and we became very friendly like friend like, she had just gotten out of a major relationship ion new years eve 2011 with a guy who she knew for years and years... and obviously we clicked i never say things like this but i think im in love with the girl, anyway i asked her out/told her how i felt about her in early june before she left on a 2 month vacation, she told me that she wasnt looking for a relationship at the moment which in the back of my mind i knew. we are still close as friends, but this feeling wont leave me im in love with her... is there anything i could do or any advice someone can give me cause im very hung up on her and kind of bums me out at times the fact i cant be with her.

so please any advice or tips would be very very appreciated
Thanks,
Chris

[PatrikIvarsson]

Hi Chris

Well It could be she still needs time to re-coup from her relationship, however I would say if she did not like to have a relationship in the future she would have said no plainly. I would suggest staying her friend but stay out of the Friendzone!

Patrik

[BackUpOrGetStng]

You're already in the friendzone. Drop this girl and move on with your life. Tell her if she changes her mind to give you call but otherwise don't contact you anymore.

[chriswalshv1]

its been 9 months i think she could have copped no? normally i can just drop a girl but the thing is i really have feelings to the point where idk what to do normally im calm and cool about everything, thats why i need help, and honestly i cant just drop her... i guess i have to wait..