Will I ever find love?

[HplssRmntc25]

I always fall for someone I can't have a relationship with and if I do have a relationship, it goes terribly wrong but no one ever wants me because I'm 1 of those typical nice guys and not 1 of those tough, macho guys who act like jerks.

My siblings have already got someone and I'm heading to my thirties and have no one and it sucks, it really does. Everywhere I go, I'm surrounded by couples, happy couples, I feel like crap when I look at them and it's worse when it's an elderly couple because it makes me feel like I might die alone.

I want someone I can share my life with, someone I can hold in my arms every morning & night and tell them how lucky I am to have them and remind them how perfect they really are or maybe I'm just not even good enough anymore!

Girls don't dig sensitive guys with baby faces. I have a baby face, I look younger than my age and they tell me "You're just a boy" and that I'm hideous. I don't have pecs, I don't cage fight, I don't look like Justin Bieber on steroids but I do have something and that's called, a heart.

[Cerby]

You assume too much. Your location is "Your mum" which makes me wonder if you're a bit of a prick in real life and don't know it. There is a douchebag apocalypse happening don't you know?

Girls dig every kind of guy, you just need to find a girl that digs you. Try something new, online dating, social club, whatever gets you more exposure.

[Boisdevie]

Stop whining. Many of those oh so happy couples and married people you see are probably in crappy relationships but they put on their 'happy' face for the world to see. And there is nothing wrong with being sensitive. So just get out there and date. And stop feeling sorry for yourself - it's most unnatractive.

[HplssRmntc25]

First of all, I'm not a jerk, I'm friendly towards all people.
And second, I post what I want, it's a forum site is it not?
If you don't like what I have to say, don't read it!
This section says "Broken hearts" of course someone's gonna post a miserable thread!

[Cerby]

First of all, I'm not a jerk, I'm friendly towards all people.
And second, I post what I want, it's a forum site is it not?
If you don't like what I have to say, don't read it!
This section says "Broken hearts" of course someone's gonna post a miserable thread!

I see the problem now.

[Boisdevie]

I see the problem now.

Agrees with Cerby.

[iamaninnocentma]

Agrees with Cerby.

Of course you do. You fags always got each others back.

This poor soul has a serious problem and all you can do is give him shit. Shame on you both, ya pair of ass bandits.

[Boisdevie]

This poor soul has a serious problem and all you can do is give him shit.

My apologies. I realise that giving people shit is of course your job.

[vashti]

I always fall for someone I can't have a relationship with and if I do have a relationship, it goes terribly wrong but no one ever wants me because I'm 1 of those typical nice guys and not 1 of those tough, macho guys who act like jerks.

My siblings have already got someone and I'm heading to my thirties and have no one and it sucks, it really does. Everywhere I go, I'm surrounded by couples, happy couples, I feel like crap when I look at them and it's worse when it's an elderly couple because it makes me feel like I might die alone.

I want someone I can share my life with, someone I can hold in my arms every morning & night and tell them how lucky I am to have them and remind them how perfect they really are or maybe I'm just not even good enough anymore!

Girls don't dig sensitive guys with baby faces. I have a baby face, I look younger than my age and they tell me "You're just a boy" and that I'm hideous. I don't have pecs, I don't cage fight, I don't look like Justin Bieber on steroids but I do have something and that's called, a heart.

I don't know what age group you are dating, but if you are 30, you can date as young as 22 without looking creepy. Try dating younger to compensate for your baby face.

As for what you want - I think we ALL want the same thing. I know I do, but even if we find it, we still die alone.

You might want to work on the "sensitive" thing... You make it sound as though you are prone to breaking out in tears at the drop of a hat, and it is true that most women want men they can lean on (rather than ones they have to comfort on a regular basis). Learn to fake some composure.

[iamaninnocentma]

My apologies. I realise that giving people shit is of course your job.

Come on man, whats happened to you? You used to be a strong independent poster, and now you are agreeing with Cerby ffs. Dont join the clique, vive la resistance.

[HplssRmntc25]

@ Boisdevie & Cerby

I dunno what I've exactly done wrong for you two to dislike me so much and use me as your troll prey for the month but you can say or think what you want, I've done nothing bad to any of you and have only been here for a few days.
I didn't came here for trouble, I only came here for advice and make friends, nothing more or less.

[Cerby]

@ Boisdevie & Cerby

I dunno what I've exactly done wrong for you two to dislike me so much and use me as your troll prey for the month but you can say or think what you want, I've done nothing bad to any of you and have only been here for a few days.
I didn't came here for trouble, I only came here for advice and make friends, nothing more or less.

I replied to your PM last night. Please read it.

[cast no shadow]

I met a month someone like you, we only had a short time to be together,
but I know how sweet and sensitive and kind he was.
If it was possible I would have never leave (met him right before departing home from a trip).

So yeah, if you are as good as you say, there is no girl I believe wouldn't want it.
But I do agree with Vashti, a girl needs to know she can lean on you.

[Maple1714]

@ Boisdevie & Cerby

I dunno what I've exactly done wrong for you two to dislike me so much and use me as your troll prey for the month but you can say or think what you want, I've done nothing bad to any of you and have only been here for a few days.
I didn't came here for trouble, I only came here for advice and make friends, nothing more or less.

Seriously, do not worry a second about what someone on the internet says to you...we don't know you. We can only pick up on your personality from what you write. In your original post you do sound a bit whinny...but so what? When my BF tells me I am being whinny I say "Yeah, deal with it"...all the while I am telling myself to check my behavior and stop

Anyway, you will find love. Do not doubt yourself. It's ok to be a sensitive guy and I thought everyone likes a baby face??? However, women do not like guys who are weak or seem weak. Being a weak man and a sensitive man are 2 different things. You must have confidence in yourself and in who you are. There is no one else like you so be proud of who you are. Stop looking for love and it will find you. BE yourself and sooner or later someone will come along that appreciates who you for you.

[Brandenroach]

Hey HplssRmntc25,

There is a perfect person out there for everyone. You need to believe that true love exists even though you haven’t found it yet. Maybe you already know the person. That person might be right in front of you, but you don’t know it because you don’t believe in the idea of a true soul mate.