I guess I'll start with some back story. My girl friend and I have known each other for around 3 years now and dating for about 1. Around two months ago she started using the word love with me which is wonderful. She has a fairly busy life do to work and is really independent, hasn't had too many relationships in her time. But we always try to work around that and make it work, which I'm fine with. Me on the other hand I'm a little less busy which is a gift and a curse Anyways she's an entertainer of sorts and the summer months she's the most busy. Because she has more than her 9to5 on the plate to include rehearsals and whatever else. Sometimes during the year she ends up traveling as well.
The last time I saw her was about two weeks ago. The last time we spoke on the phone was a few days ago. The day I did see her last everything was normal as usual kiss/I love you type stuff. Every year she does seem busy around this time and she showed me her busy schedule. On the phone we try to make some plans to meet up but that's been falling through cause she's busy. She posts events she goes to on Facebook, has pictures with her girls that are in the same line of work, so I know she's not entirely blowing me off.
Over the past couple days we have been texting but when I attempt to get together with her she says she's "busy" I ask her when she thinks she has sometime and says "I don't know". I don't want to believe she's blowing me off for other reasons because with her work the hours are long and potentionally make you tired/run down.
Do you guys think I'm over thinking this situation too much? Should I stop initiating contact and give her a chance to start things up? Do you think that independent mindset is kicking in? I'm fine with her busy life style and respect it, so the reason I'm asking is due to a previous marriage that ended ith my ex wife cheating on me. I think that tends to make me nervous or extra suspicious.
Thanks for reading and looking forward to some responses.