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    Help with this girl!

    There's this girl at work and we're both college students. We started talking a bunch. She likes to make fun of me a lot, she says a lot of racist jokes but I know she is j/p. I say some racist jokes back but she knows I'm j/p also.

    Anyway one day she asked me what I do with my money I make I said "Nothing really." Then she said "You should spend it on me buy me lunch and a Micheal Kors purse." I brushed it off because I thought she was j/p again because she jokes a lot so it's hard figure her out.

    Today at work, she mentioned lunch again, she said it's her bday soon and I should get her something. I was like" yeah yeah woteva." She said "Really you should get me an early bday present." I'm like ok woteva then. Then I asked her "When do you want to grab lunch together?" We agreed with a time at 4. When that time came along I decided not to say anything. I pretended like I forgot about agreeing to getting lunch. I just wanted to see what she would do. At 4:36 she asked me "are you hungry yet? Want to get lunch?" We went out on our lunch break and i brought her lunch.

    Now I want to know if this girl likes me or not. At first I didn't really like her now I might be catching feelings...

    The thing is she says she like this dude she met and is always talking about him. She even ask for some advice from our co-workers on how to get him to like her. She showed me some messages on her facebook of the dude he sent her and asked for my advice... In addition, like I said she like to say racist jokes... So, I am trippin' I don't know what to think and I can't figure her out.

    Does she like me? Like me as a friend? Is she just bored at work wanting someone to talk to? Maybe she just wanted free lunch? Or she just want to **** with me and play some games?

    I don't know what it is. What do you guys think?

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    Next time she tries to get you to buy her lunch, say that you'll only buy her lunch if you can be sure of a shag afterwards... then shag her.
    "... Tread softly because you tread on my dreams"

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheCafeTerrace View Post
    Next time she tries to get you to buy her lunch, say that you'll only buy her lunch if you can be sure of a shag afterwards... then shag her.
    If she goes for it would that mean that buying her, say, a Gucci handbag would guarantee anal fun?

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    At the very least, maybe throw in being woken up with a blowjob in the morning too.
    "... Tread softly because you tread on my dreams"

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    Friends zoned.....................

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    Hear me out.. Could it be possible that it is her way of asking me out? And when she is asking about a dude that she likes just to test me so she can see if it makes me jealous? I don't know...

    One of my friends said "she is toying with you, because honestly she is too cute for you." lmao

    I think I should just get rejected just to make sure. I hate juggling with these range possibilities of what she thinks about me.. Unless I shouldn't and you guys are sure? So should I just go for it?

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    Ask her out....duh.

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